Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco’s Wedding: Traditions, Twists, and Trending Wedding Dresses
- Jennifer Wilson
- Oct 1
- 8 min read
Updated: Oct 24
When pop superstar Selena Gomez and music producer Benny Blanco tied the knot, they proved that weddings don’t have to follow every rule to be absolutely unforgettable. Their celebration blended traditions with personal touches. The result? A wedding that was authentic and true to who they are as a couple.
In this blog, we’re breaking down the small details — from Selena’s choice of lily of the valley florals (they smell divine) to the traditions they honored (and the ones they skipped!) — and why this wedding is already inspiring engaged couples across the globe.
From friendship to forever
Selena and Benny’s love story began in the studio, where years of collaboration blossomed into true romance. Going public in 2023 and announcing their engagement in December 2024, they spent a year planning a celebration that was as personal as it was glamorous.
The engagement was announced in December 2024, with Selena posting a slideshow of images including her ring, captioned “Forever begins now”
What makes it extra interesting: the setup was a Taco Bell–themed picnic, but it wasn’t a spontaneous park date. Rather, it was revealed that Benny Blanco staged the entire scene on a sound stage made to look like an outdoor picnic, complete with Taco Bell food, greenery, and romantic elements.
The Wedding weekend
The couple tied the knot on September 27, 2025, in Santa Barbara, California at the Sea Crest Nursery alongside family, close friends, and A-list guests like Taylor Swift, Ed Sheeran, and Paris Hilton. With just under 200 people in attendance, the event was a balance between Hollywood glamour and an intimate family gathering.
The site features lush greenery, palms, cycads, and a natural, botanical aesthetic — it allowed for a romantic, garden-like atmosphere.
The couple leaned into the venue’s organic beauty: white tents, flowing fabrics, elegant floral installations, and ambient lighting.
While no one has confirmed the exact venue fee insiders speculate the weekend’s total cost may have been USD 4 million. Given that, and typical high-end estate rentals, one could reasonably estimate the venue rental and setup costs alone may have been in the low to mid hundreds of thousands — a worthy investment for the privacy, beauty, and prestige the location afforded.
The groom shared one photo of the altar, which was decorated with layered red and gold rugs and clusters of autumnal flowers.
The rehearsal dinner was held the night before at a mansion in Hope Ranch / Goleta Valley — area known for its seclusion and privacy.
Guests were housed at the El Encanto Hotel in Santa Barbara, a boutique resort offering Hollywood-glamour meets coastal elegance, ensuring both comfort and exclusivity.
In August, Selena and a group of friends visited Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, for what her bachelorette party ahead of her wedding to Benny.
Get the Look: Selena’s Timeless Natural-Luxury Bridal Style
Receipts first: New coverage shows Selena wore three custom Ralph Lauren gowns—a halter-neck lace ceremony dress with train, a lace look, and a vintage-inspired off-the-shoulder reception midi—paired with a classic veil, diamond drop earrings, lilies-of-the-valley bouquet, and a diamond eternity band stacked with her marquise engagement ring.
Not One but THREE Wedding Dresses!
Selena wore not one but three gowns, each showcasing a different side of her bridal style:
The Ceremony Dress – A custom Ralph Lauren gown with draped satin and delicate lace details, combining Old Hollywood glam with modern grace.
The Reception Look – A romantic lace dress embroidered with their initials, perfect for dancing the night away.Photo by Samm Blake
The After-Party Dress – A playful off-the-shoulder vintage-inspired piece that radiated effortless charm.
Her look was a masterclass in luxury without excess — every detail intentional, every change timeless.
1) ceremony: halter lace, long train, classic veil
Dress Inspo:
Veil Inspo:
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2) second look: romantic lace with personal embroidery
Pick a simple lace sheath or a-line and add custom heart/initials patch sewn inside the bodice or hem.
Custom “something-blue” lace heart labels (Etsy)—perfect for initials + date.
3) reception/after-party: vintage off-the-shoulder midi
Dress Inspo:
4) jewelry & rings (the stacked-sparkle moment)
Diamond drop earrings: press photos highlight a classic drop silhouette; for accessible sparkle, use Swarovski bridal drops or luxe-look costume options.
5) Bridal Bouquet
Selena Gomez carried one of the most coveted flowers in the wedding world: lily of the valley.
This fragile, bell-shaped flower is not only beautiful...it’s also symbolic. Linked to purity, happiness, and good fortune, lily of the valley has been a preferred flower for royalty and celebrities. Princess Grace of Monaco, Kate Middleton, and now Selena have all chosen it for their weddings.
Here’s the catch:
It’s rare – The bloom is highly seasonal (usually late spring) and doesn’t grow year-round.
It’s fragile – It wilts quickly, making it difficult to transport and arrange.
It’s pricey – Often considered the most expensive cut flower in the world, with bridal bouquets running into the thousands.
What Selena Did Differently
Selena appears to have carried lily of the valley just for herself. That’s a smart way to highlight the bride without inflating the floral budget. It also keeps the flower’s special symbolism tied to the bride alone.
How to Get the Look Without the Cost
If lily of the valley isn’t accessible (or affordable), there are still options:
Fresh Alternatives: Ask your florist about sweet peas, stephanotis, or miniature freesia, which give a similar soft, romantic look at a fraction of the price.
High-Quality Realistic Stems: There are stunning faux lily of the valley bouquets available online — perfect for brides who want the aesthetic without worrying about wilting.
Mix & Match: Use fresh blooms for the bridal bouquet but faux stems for other arrangements.
The Makeup: A Natural Luxury Glow
Selena’s beauty look was as talked-about as her wedding dresses. Instead of heavy contouring or overly dramatic glam, she embraced a natural, radiant finish — the kind of glow that photographs beautifully and feels ageless. It’s a look that resonates with both younger fans chasing trend-forward glam and older women who value classic elegance.
Selena turned to her own Rare Beauty line, which has become a staple for brides who want modern formulas with timeless payoff. Here’s how to channel her bridal radiance:
Flawless Base: Liquid Touch Weightless Foundation — light but buildable, perfect for an all-day wear.
Bright Under Eyes: Liquid Touch Brightening Concealer to hide dark circles and stay crease-free.
The Iconic Blush: Soft Pinch Liquid Blush for a romantic flush that lasts through every toast.
Radiant Glow: Positive Light Liquid Luminizer — just a touch on cheekbones and Cupid’s bow for candlelit radiance.
Set It & Forget It: Always An Optimist Soft Radiance Setting Powder to keep shine away while staying luminous.
The Perfect Bridal Lip: Soft Pinch Tinted Lip Oil — hydrating, glossy, and kiss-proof.
Selena’s beauty choice was more than a makeup routine — it was a statement. The timeless natural luxury look appeals to brides across generations:
For younger brides: it’s trendy, lightweight, and TikTok-approved (Rare Beauty blushes are viral staples).
For older brides: it’s graceful, age-defying, and focuses on healthy, glowing skin instead of heavy layers.
It’s proof that true bridal beauty never has an expiration date.
Breaking Traditions & Making Their Own
Selena and Benny weren’t afraid to bend the rules of a traditional wedding. Long before the big day, Selena admitted on the Table Manners podcast (April 2025) that she planned to skip the classic first dance. “I don’t think we’re looking at having one of those — I feel embarrassed,” she shared with a laugh.
One of those moments was the hora, a Jewish dance where guests lift the newlyweds high above the crowd on chairs. Selena said that she’d have extra padding on the floor just in case things got a little wild, but she loved the idea of sharing in Benny’s traditions and creating a fun, communal memory.
Food was another area where the couple’s personalities shined through. Both are passionate foodies — Selena with her cooking show Selena + Chef and Benny with his 2024 cookbook Open Wide: A Cookbook for Friends. Even their engagement tied back to food, when Benny proposed after setting up a lavish Taco Bell–themed picnic, complete with a bathtub filled with queso. Guests and fans alike speculated that their reception menu probably reflected that same playful spirit, perhaps even including a Taco Bell truck as a late-night snack option.
Selena also hinted that she wanted to rethink the wedding cake tradition. Instead of a towering multi-tier cake, she envisioned a small, personal cake to share with Benny — something they could even freeze for later. And when asked about her dream dessert, she didn’t hold back: biscuits and gravy.
As for Benny, he had just one non-negotiable: fresh challah bread baked by chef and author Jake Cohen. “That’s all I care about,” he said in an interview. “He makes the best challah I’ve ever had.”
By skipping some traditions and embracing others, Selena and Benny created a celebration that felt modern, joyful, and deeply personal — a reminder that weddings are about writing your own rules.
Final Thoughts
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s wedding was more than star-studded headlines. It was a celebration of authenticity, intimacy, and effortless luxury. And her bridal beauty — glowing skin, rosy cheeks, and radiant eyes — is a look any bride can achieve.
If you’re planning your own big day, channel Selena’s glow with these Rare Beauty staples and embrace the same timeless natural luxury look that captured hearts worldwide.
You don’t have to be a celebrity to borrow inspiration from Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s big day. What made their celebration so special wasn’t the glitz or star-studded guest list — it was the way they blended tradition and comfort.
Whether it’s:
Choosing a meaningful tradition to bring your guests together,
Skipping a moment that doesn’t feel like “you” (like the first dance),
Or selecting a flower, dessert, or detail that carries personal meaning…
…the key takeaway is: your wedding should feel like your story.
Here in Michigan, couples are already embracing that mindset — from rustic barn weddings filled with personal décor to modern celebrations with unexpected food and drink twists.
At Celestial Farms, we love helping couples bring these details to life, whether it’s a nod to tradition, a touch of celebrity-inspired glam, or something completely original.
Because at the end of the day, the most unforgettable weddings aren’t about following every rule — they’re about creating moments that feel authentically yours.
Celestial Farms is a locally owned and operated business at 3116 E. Vienna Rd. Clio, Michigan 48420. We sincerely hope to encourage couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it’s time to book your wedding venue & vendors. With locally owned venues you will often see a higher level of hospitality, better communication and a greater desire to truly ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a weekly shout out in our blog. you can find locally owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map.
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